Have you ever thought about what nagging is? When u hear nagging, these are what should come to ur mind.....fault-finding,complaints, criticism,catty,cynical, demanding,insistent, persistent, pestering. However, Nagging can become a vicious cycle. The more you nag, the more your mate avoids you or withdraws- both emotionally and physically from you.
EFFECTS OF NAGGING ON RELATIONSHIPS
*Even though your gripes may be valid, nagging makes your spouse resentful.
*Nagging makes your spouse defensive.
*Nagging puts you in the parent role and your spouse in the child role. This isn't healthy for your marriage relationship.
* Nagging is disrespectful.
* Nagging is often perceived as criticism, so your spouse may tune out making what you are saying ineffective.
* When your spouse is being nagged, he/she probably feels attacked personally.
* Nagging can make your spouse feel inadequate.
DO NOT NAG, ITS NOT HEALTHY FOR RELATIONSHIPS
Nagging is bad attitude, but male do it most often, especially when we feel we r in full control of the relationship, I guess the parental problem is ego, which coils from a play-out... Knw what I mean, but with a note, we both shouldn't nag! -both male n female.
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